23keys to have a successful relationship

I failed severally, and this warranted my success. 

Failure is an inevitable key to progress in life. No man who ever succeeded in life without failing at least once. Today, people celebrate me a lot. They just want to have the kind of my relationship, some watch us and shared tears, some said, what a perfect combination. But the truth is that I have failed severally. It got to a time, I even said to my self, am not going into any relationship again after failing in a relationship, I waited for two years to prepare and work things out but I still failed again. But I thank God for where I am now. You see, failure should not be the reason why you want to kill yourself. Because you failed does not mean you can't succeed anymore.  The key to prosperity is identifying the reason or caused of your failure. The day you identify your problem, it is partially solved. 

When i started this relationship in December 2018, within a week,  is as if  this relationship is not going to work again. Attack on her health, her school, and even on the relationship. This made me to study more and hear what the holy Spirit have to say. Some of the things I learnt is that: 

1. No perfect partner anywhere. 

2. A good relationship is the efforts of the two parties involved. 

3. Don't copy the principles of your friends and apply them to your relationship. This is because people are inherently different from each other. 

4. Love is not conditional and a thing of feeling. 

5. Rather than pointing accusing fingers on each other, try to find what the fault is and resolved it amicably. 

6. Always forgive and don't keep grudges against your partner. 

7. Spend time to pray  together. 

8. Always Learn to discuss problems and challenge with each other. 

9. Try as possible to always avoid  involving a third party in your relationship, because not everybody wish you well. 

10. Do any allow anybody take the place of your partner in your life, not even your family members.

 

11. The enemy of your partner is also your enemy. 

12. Work as team mate. Let your partner be your greatest team mate. 

13. Learn to keep each others secrets. 

14. Respect and celebrate each other. 

15. Have a good communication skills. 

16. Support and defend each other.

17. Guide your heart against evil thoughts and imagination. 

18. Always Ask the lord for grace to prosper. 

19. Always Be obedient to your partner. 

20. Let him or her be your greatest playmate. 

21. Always Acknowledge your wrongs, Don't always claim you are right. 

22. Don't be bossy, put the image of a servant.

23. Don't hide any secret from your partner.